Friday, February 14, 2025

The Only Way Out is Through

March should come with a giant warning sign:  The path to paradise begins in hell.  It is one of Dante’s more compassionate quotations.  His Inferno seems an appropriate text from which to quote given the energies awaiting us.  And while, abandon all hope ye who enter here, feels a bit too drastic a quotation, its sentiment does capture the essence of March 2025 rather effectively.

For anyone who knows me, I am a glass half full type of person and astrologer.  Yet, the month ahead is a cosmic minefield, a veritable battering ram of activity.  We will not be the same come April. So in the vernacular, I’m going to give it to you straight:

March isn’t messing around.  It pounces from the get go on Day One with Valuable Venus turning retrograde motion on Saturday, March 1st.  This is a continuation of the interior planets (Mercury, Mars and Venus) back-to-back retrogrades that began in late November 2024 with Mars and Mercury shifting into reverse gear.  Our journey inward plundering our psyche continues now through March.

Venus is a helper wherever she cycles.  She rules the good life:  love, money, beauty and relationship, qualities we seek more of.  Her retrograde passage lasts six weeks, 40 days and 40 nights. Ring a bell?  This is the same number of days as Jesus’ wandering in the desert, his temptation by Satan and the season of Lent with which Venus retrograde is closely associated.  And it just so happens that Lent occurs on nearly the same days this year (March 5-April 17) as Venus retrograde (March 1-April 12).

This cyclical overlap rarely occurs; and it serves to underscore a primary theme of Venus retrograde:  temptation.  Temptation on all fronts:  relationships, values, resources, talents, and worth.  It is a very seductive time.  So a word to the wise:  use the following phrase when feeling tempted. Start by asking:  what and whom do you value, in yourself, in others, in life?

For the next six weeks, watch for old relationships surfacing, including memories of past relationships.  This is a classic time for your childhood friend to reach out or an old flame to reconnect.  It is also a time of buyer beware in capital letters.  This is especially true given Venus turning retrograde in fiery Aries an impulsive sign to begin with and typically lacking self-control.  So ask yourself whether you really need that luxury item, that designer handbag?  That very expensive, latest gadget?   Venus retrograde is the most notorious time of buyer’s remorse, whether for actual material goods or relationships that were better left on the back burner.  Better to think about it and see how you feel come late April.

To be clear, it is not the best time to:  start a business; make new investments; buy homes, cars or luxury items; go on a first date or initiate new relationships.  Generally avoid or delay anything to do with resource investment in general, whether money, relationship or skill development.  This is the time to ask:  how do I want to spend my time, energy, money or talents?

It is the perfect time for Spring cleaning and to practice the RE words including:  research, review, retreat, renew, recalibrate, restore, rest, and more, especially the second half of March when Messenger Mercury is also retrograde.

Which is where we head next:  into the middle of the month and the heart of darkness.  Good to remember now that it is always darkest before dawn.  Control what you can and surrender anything else. The first eclipse of 2025 occurs on Friday, March 14th.  A total Full Moon lunar eclipse in Virgo opposite the Sun in Pisces, its themes are control vs. surrender, expectation management, and deep cleansing with healing potential.

A reminder that eclipses are neither bad nor good; however, if the coordinates impact your astrology chart, you will feel the effects.  With Sun and Saturn aligning to Motivating Mars during the eclipse, trust your intuition.  It is a saving grace and will show you the way forward.

We need all the guidance we can handle as the very next day, Messenger Mercury turns retrograde on the Ides of March, Saturday, March 15th.  This is a one-two cosmic punch.  The planets do indeed have our attention now.  In the wake of the total lunar eclipse, expect some very big messages. 

The stretch between eclipses is a notorious time with the energetic quality of a black hole.  Trust me, you do not want to go in there alone or without a light by which to see.  The darkness is magnified and intensified by the overlapping Venus-Mercury retrogrades.  Think Mississippi mud.  We are spinning our wheels now.  Expect little to no traction. 

How to best make use of the second half of March?  Plan and prepare; surrender what you cannot control; double down on the RE words; add music to your life, in your home, car and at work; use water therapy of all kinds:  steam, frozen, or liquid. Combined with exercise, such as walking around water, swimming or boating, use water as a tool to mitigate excess energy or change your scenery.

Now is the time to clean house, both literally and physically. The Virgo Full Moon eclipse directs us to look at our health, wellness, work and lifestyle routines and habits.  Where do you need to clean up your act?  Aligned helpfully to change-agent Uranus in Taurus, this practical moon keeps our efforts grounded and real.  Dream. Vision forward. Then prepare to build.

What are you building?

A few days later the Spring Equinox occurs on Thursday, March 20th.  Always a time of fresh starts, this is especially true now as the Aries Sun is tightly wedged between Venus-Mercury,  Neptune, the lunar north node and taskmaster Saturn in Pisces.  The latter mandates a deep clearing and clarifying to make way for the brand new to unfold.  We are at a tipping point, the threshold of a portal.  There is no going back, returning to old days or previous ways.

March is aptly named for our perpetual march forward.

Thursday, March 27th Valuable Venus rolls back into Pisces, joining dreamy Neptune, the north node and Saturn.  Here Venus shines compassion to unify disparate forces.  Heading into the New Moon eclipse in Aries on Saturday, March 29th, we need all the love we can get. Watch for illusion and the delusional as well as pristine insight and understanding.   There are those who are irretrievably lost along with those who guide, guard and protect us.  Take care with whom you align yourself with now.

Words and language have rarely mattered more. With Messenger Mercury at an attention-getting degree, choose your words wisely as you will be heard now.  Set your intentions.  Handwrite three to five goals that you aim to work on over the next month, season or year.  Be sure to include prayers for peace and calm in your community and the world at large as we are in great need both individually and collectively.

As if the cosmic stew of March were not enough, the month departs with a swan song, an epic crescendo.  Notably, spiritual Neptune shifts into the sign of Aries.  An outer planet, Neptune moves from one sign to another about every 15 years or so.  The last time it changed signs was in 2011, when she turned from Aquarius into Pisces.  Think about where you were, who you were, what occupied your life back then.  How far you have come!

Post Covid pandemic, you are probably living a different life based on choices you may not have ever conceived of in 2011.  Imagine where and who you might be in 2038 when Neptune changes signs again, into Taurus. 

A spiritual, watery planet in a fiery sign of action at 00 degrees Aries, Neptune makes a statement.  Take heed.  This is not a time for the faint of heart.  April holds the light at the end of the tunnel.  But we do indeed have miles to go before we sleep.  As Winston Churchill said: If you are going through hell, keep going.

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