VENUS: she’s a real beauty. The Goddess of love, money and
relationships. Who doesn’t want more of
that?!
Venus is one of two beneficent planets in our galaxy, the
other being Jupiter. She rules Taurus
and Libra, one earth and the other an air sign.
Both cultivate beauty in all forms imaginable, whether the flowers you
plant in your garden, songs you write and sing, or the table you set for a
dinner party. Venus is grace, style and
elegance. But most especially, Venus is
Values. She rules our skills and
talents, how we earn money through the application of these, our relationships,
self-esteem, possessions, our worth.
Next month, Venus turns retrograde motion. Most of us are familiar with Mercury
retrograde as it occurs three times a year.
However, once every eighteen months Venus turns retrograde as well. From
Tuesday, May 12th to Thursday, June 25th, Venus reverses
gear in the sign of Gemini.
What does this mean for you?
First let’s look at Gemini.
The air sign of intellect, Gemini rules the mental realm: thoughts, language, communication, speech,
cause and effect…no small thing. It is
the Information Gatherer in Chief, along with disseminator of said information. Think of a radio, which Gemini rules, giving
and receiving messages constantly. Thus,
Gemini rules our rational, conscious mind, what occupies our thoughts
presently, in the now, at this very moment.
It is the great connector, so ground transportation: cars, buses, trains and the rides we take via
these modes.
This is also the arena of
our immediate environment, our neighbors, neighborhood and community and the
extent to which we are engaged in it.
Last, the sign of duality, Gemini the Twins, rules siblings and pairs of
any kinds. In Gemini, Venus has an intellectual bent. She wants to know, engage, discuss, read, write, be informed and share information. She attracts smart people and wants to be in
the thick of their knowledge. Venus in Gemini encourages us to be conscious of our thoughts, words, and
language. She understands the cause and effect of thoughts and speech: that kind words sooth and inspire; that
insults hurt or do worse; that our thoughts affect our emotions which affect
our actions.
If you know where Gemini occurs in your natal chart, you
will find Venus going back and forth across that sector of your life this
Spring. For 40 days and 40 nights, she
reverses gear to mark her shift from super bright evening star to the first to
rise before the Sun as morning star. That bit about 40 days and 40 nights….sound
familiar? Hmmmm, yes it does.
Jesus wandered through the desert for this length of
time. And the Sumerian goddess Inannna
descended into hell to meet her wanton sister Ereshkigal. As did Ishtar and Isis, the Babylonian and Egyptian
versions of Inanna, all forerunners of Venus.
Each relates a dark night of the
soul we do not associate with Venus. Whether
it is the story of Jesus’ confrontation by the devil in desert or Inanna crossing
through seven gates of hell to redeem and own her shadow sister side, the
mission remains the same: We are invited to pause and dance with pieces
of ourselves we either do not know or acknowledge. Emerging on the other side of this period, we
will know who we are better than we ever did before. No matter the sign it occurs, Venus
retrograde is reflective and thus deeply psychological.
Enter the “Re” words.
As with all interior planet retrograde phases, the Re words are ready
for prime time and take precedence. In
the case of Venus, because she rules relationships, this really means
RElationship REview, including and especially with our primary
relationship: our Self. Reflection: Who are you? Have you checked in with yourself
lately? Given the extraordinary time we
are living through now, most of us have been forced to hit the pause button and
consider exactly how we conduct our lives, who we’ve become and most
importantly, do we want to continue living the way we did before Corona virus?
Reflections of self-worth are as much about our wallet as
they are how we feel about ourselves.
Between May 12 and June 25th we take stock, conduct an
in-depth inventory of our skills and talents, both those we acknowledge or
barely acknowledge or even perhaps, have yet to be discovered. The virus has sparked necessity, the mother
of invention. If you find your bank
account rapidly dwindling, Venus retrograding through Gemini has us thinking on
all cylinders about new ways to apply skills and talents to earn money. Have you been working a dead end job (which
maybe no longer exists) simply to make ends meet? Venus retrograde has you considering more
soulful pursuits. In alignment with
yourself, your purpose, your confidence lifts.
In Gemini, we review information, journal, reconnect with neighbors and our community in ways that
harken to days gone by, in a simpler time.
Take car rides and let your imagination flow, to local destinations,
state parks and recreation spots. Watch
the conversations unfold along the way.
Expect heightened involvement with siblings, perhaps those you’ve become
distant or even estranged; at a minimum, ponder your sibling
relationships. Others from earlier in
your life may also REsurface: old
partners, friends, relatives.
The caution of Venus retrograde is temptation. Enter mythology
or biblical parables: this is where the
Devil comes to entice us. Hit the pause
button: do you really want to indulge in
an affair with your ex boy/girlfriend? In
Gemini, there is also the temptation to misuse of language, either thought or
spoken. It is vital to understand the
power of your words, both positive self-talk and the information you share. Watch, in particular, your thoughts and where
they lead. Are you mentally spiraling into
hollow pits of negativity?
Covid 19 has sparked fear mongering of the worst variety,
triggering all manner of psychological hijacking. The great news is that now is a perfect time to REtrain your brain. Use affirmations, mantras, meditations,
positive people, books and conversations to REdirect your thoughts. Along the
same line, gossip is never a good idea but especially this May and June, your
words may come back to haunt you. Information exchanged and shared during this
period must be based on proven facts, evidence, science and NOT magical
thinking. It is essential that you speak the truth
as best you understand it. The words you
speak represent who you are, your character and your worth.
By the same measure, since Venus rules the stock market, our
possessions and how we earn a living, May 12-June 25th is not the time to invest in things we
cannot afford, whether cars, luxury items, or pipe dreams. Gemini is the salesman of the zodiac and its
versatility with language is also its biggest vice: avoid deals and situations that seem too good
to be true. Hit the pause button and sleep
on it. In the morning, check in with
your gut. What does it say? Mid-May through June is not an optimal time
to start a new job either, but for anyone receiving unemployment now, new work
is best begun this summer.
In brief summation, some brief Do’s and Don’ts of Venus
Retrograde in Gemini:
DO:
REconnect with siblings, neighbors, community, old friends,
family and relatives
REflect on your relationship with yourself, your life, especially
on a car drive
REview information,
messages, your spending habits, finances, mental/thought processes to REtrain
your brain
DON’T:
Fall for temptation
Be seduced into negative mental spirals, sexual affairs, purchasing luxury items/cars/homes
Engage in gossip
To read more about Venus, her cycles and connection to your
life, I highly recommend the works of Ronnie Gale Dreyer and Arielle Guttman.
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